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the 15-minute family photo list

Couple leading their laughing wedding party away from a white colonial house

Family photos are the part of the day couples dread most. I get it. But they don't need to take long, and they don't need to feel stiff. This is where being a little detail-obsessed pays off.

how to make it fast

  • Keep it to 8–12 groupings. Start with the largest group and work down, so grandparents can sit down early.
  • Pick one helper from each side who knows everyone by name and isn't shy about calling them over.
  • Tell everyone on the list ahead of time where to be and when.

a sample list

  • Both full families together
  • One of you with parents and siblings
  • One of you with grandparents
  • The other with parents and siblings
  • The other with grandparents
  • Wedding party

Anything beyond that, like cousins or college friends, we'll grab during the reception.

then the fun ones

Once the list is done, the wedding party is free to be themselves. We'll get one nice, straight version for your parents, then let everyone loosen up. Those are the ones people actually share.

Wedding party cheering outside a white church while the couple kisses
Groomsmen tossing the groom into the air against a blue sky and mountainsBlack and white photo of the groom and groomsmen leaning on a wooden bar, laughing

save some family for later

Some of the best family pictures aren't on the list at all. They happen on the dance floor.

The bride and her father laughing mid-danceBlack and white photo of the groom embracing a laughing guest on the dance floor

Send me your list a few weeks before the wedding, with names next to each grouping. I'll work through it on the day, so you don't have to keep track of anyone.

Eric Banash

Eric Banash is a documentary-style wedding photographer based in greater Boston, photographing weddings all over Massachusetts and New England since 2015. Check if your date is open.